What? Me worry?

March 30, 2007 – Conversations in China

Much of every day I am with folks who have no, or very little English – yet, I have become able to participate in conversation somewhat by becoming familiar with nuance.

So, this is how I think it works.

If the conversation is sort of boisterous and the pace quickens, then falls off and sounds sort of off-handed, then gets wildly faster and louder and so on – it’s business.

If the conversation sounds sort of inquisitive and maybe serious, with lots of questions – someone is probably ordering dinner.

If the group is silent and staring at the floor – they’d be talking about politics if they were talking at all.

If one person is smiling broadly and talking excitedly, then the whole group erupts into uproarious laughter and excited outbursts of speech, while staring at you – you’ve done something dumb and they are making a joke about you. You must relax and enjoy it, acknowledging their fun with a sort of “What? Me Worry?” Alfred E. Neuman-esque smile.